FOREPLAY: WHAT A WOMAN LIKES
One of the reasons why petting is so potent and so enjoyed by women is that it arouses and prepares them for sexual intercourse. For women, intercourse is welcome only when they have had enough stimulation so that the vagina lubricates and unfolds, ready to receive the penis. Without the chance to build up the level of sex hormones through kissing, caressing and petting, intercourse can be very uncomfortable for a woman. Most men underestimate how long this takes, since their own erections occur much more quickly.
Kissing should lead into and blend with caresses all over a woman’s body. Most women prefer initial caresses to be in areas other than the breasts and genitals, but once they have begun to feel aroused, they do enjoy having their breasts and bottoms stimulated. Breasts, however, need careful stroking until a woman is more highly aroused, then more passionate kissing, sucking and stroking are pleasurable. Most women like their buttocks caressed or squeezed; some enjoy gentle smacking. Only when a woman is sufficiently aroused does she want her partner to move on to genital caresses. Women differ in their tastes, but most prefer initial genital caresses to be gentle, with harder, more vigorous movements as they near orgasm.
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